Wise Observer

If you talk to two persons - one who has never felt love, and
other who is deeply in love, you will find them talking in a
very different way. If you were to ask the person who has never
loved about what he/she felt about the other’s talk, the answer
will be -crazy!

Is it true? Does love drive one to madness? It may not be
madness as understood by psychiatrists, but a madness of
emotions. Am I right? Why does love do that? To understand this,
we have to explore more about love or romance. Is it friendship?
Is it physical attraction/ is it liking for each other?What is
love and what is this relationship all about? Love combines all
these and goes much beyond in bonding. Lovers are bonded to each
other emotionally and totally. A lover can not imagine of life
without his/her beloved. A lover will suffer like a fish suffers
without water , if he/she is separated from the beloved. Love
becomes the whole life. Love gives life. Love becomes the reason
of life. Life begins and ends with love. That is love. And
that’s why people call love mad!

How and why a lover feels like this for beloved is beyond any
logical explanation. There is no arithmetic sum that can decide
this. It is all emotional. And the emotions are so overwhelming
that they engulf the whole personality. Why does a flower look
lovely to all of us? Why are we attracted by the sight of a
beautiful sunset? Why do we love to walk on the beach? Do we
know? Can we answer these questions? Our only answer may be that
- I feel happy doing it. A lover feels happy, rather so happy in
love that it can not be compared with any other happiness. One
forgets one’s pains, one’s pleasures and one’s existence when in
love.

Fall in love and feel the madness. You will get a clue to why
lovers are called mad.

I
Love Everything Now

Lo
ve overflows

Ma
d in love

I am madly in love

Why do I love you so madly?

I’m sure at times of deep crisis many of you have considered thoughts of “giving up”. What is the cost to you of entertaining such thoughts? Well as one client with a progressively deteriorating illness I was working with stated “it’s like having one foot out the back door”.

So what does it mean to “have one foot out the back door”?

Well it means that “YOU” are not fully in your body!

Now if “YOU” are the life giving force or energy that your body, out of necessity, requires to sustain it in a healthy and functional state (i.e. the way that a plant requires the life giving energy of the Sun to sustain it) what do you think will happen to your body if you are not fully in it?

Well a plant eventually dies without the Sun. In the same way your body will die without you!

So when are you not “fully” in your body?

Well when you for instance:

1) Entertain giving up,

2) When you dislike your body or yourself for some reason, and

3) When you choose to harbor toxic things in your bio-field and therefore your body.

Where are you left when your body is not fully healthy and functional? Well in a state of crisis. In fact, I would say that “all” crises in your life are the result of you not being fully in your body all the time.

In other words, by choosing “life” i.e. to be in your body, you are likely to ward off any crisis. That is because, by choosing to be fully in your body always, your body will experience a strength and resilience you have likely never known before.

So, where would you like to have your two feet?

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Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is a Key Note Speaker,Editor of a New Ezine Called “Spirituality And Science” (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of “Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation” (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.

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